Questions and Conversation Starters for Your Psychic Reading

Talking to your psychic is a magical and also vulnerable experience whether it is your first time or your hundredth. I want to share with you my thoughts on what to talk with your psychic about including what questions to ask. There is no one way to do it, but most importantly, let the conversation unfold organically and have compassion for yourself in the process - may your journey be thorough and long-lasting!

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Here are some Reading Specific Conversation Starters and Questions

Here are some ideas for starting a conversation with and questions to ask your psychic based on the type of reading you are receiving:


  1. Start by telling your psychic what kind of work you do and how you feel in your job. 
  2. Discuss how coworkers make you feel - you might ask how to handle specific coworkers based on your relationships with them.
  3. What about overall job satisfaction? You might discuss with your psychic how you feel about your work projects and whether work projects are helping or hindering you toward overall life satisfaction.
  4. Work/life balance: Try discussing how work creates a (dis)harmony in your life. Does work leave you tired or rejuvenated? Are you thinking about work at home in a way that is problematic or inspiring? And what about your lifestyle - does it go hand in hand with what you do? Ask your psychic counselor for advice on finding harmony between your work and your life.
  5. If you are considering whether or not to stay in your job or pursue a different career path, try asking your psychic about how you can open yourself to this kind of opportunity or how quitting might simply be a way of not facing an important personal issue.

Love and Relationships

  1. Begin by talking about your love life. Discuss your needs and desires and any important past relationships. Tell your psychic what is on your mind concerning love right now: what are your fears, obsessions, hang-ups?
  2. Many are searching for information about whether or not a partner is cheating. This kind of question has the potential to limit your reading. Try instead by focusing on how you feel in the relationship: are your needs being met? Do you need a healing? Do you want to be set free? 
  3. If you want to actualize true love and/or marriage, talk with your psychic about what kind of qualities could be a good match for you and how you can bring about a meeting with someone well-suited to you.
  4. Example questions to ask your psychic about love and relationships are: How can I put myself in the best position to find true love? How can the universe help heal a broken heart? How can diviniation light the path to love? Is my current relationship true love?

Dream Analysis

  1. For this type of reading it is important that you remember your dreams. Take detailed notes on your dreams. Take particular note of actions in the dreams, words, and symbolic objects as well as people. Try to remember how you felt in the dream(s) and directly afterwards. Also, consider your own interpretation for your dream: what is the dream’s significance in terms of your real life experiences in the past or present?

Past Life

  1. When talking with your psychic in a past life reading, consider experiences that are recurring for you in your life. Constant struggles as well as talents of yours could be connected to your past life. 
  2. Relationships with friends and lovers can also be tied to past lives. If you feel intensely drawn to someone, there could be a history there making it difficult to disconnect with them even if now the relationship is toxic. 
  3. Ask your psychic not just about your past, but how you can honor the present by doing what is good for you in your current/present manifestation despite what has occurred in your history.
  4. These readings can bring up intense feelings because often there are traumas in our past which we are still healing from.


  1. Like the Past Life readings, Healing can be vulnerable, and yet this is a powerful type of reading supporting your resilience and courageousness. 
  2. In a healing reading, talk with your psychic about what you need a healing for. You might discuss a specific event or a series. 
  3. Through a healing, you may seek to recover a sense of self that was lost, find a way to forgive, and move on.

I hope that you find what you are looking for in your reading! Of course, psychic readings are just one avenue to access the answers you want, but you are the one in charge of your life. It is important to seek counsel from within and also from your broader community, from a range of people you trust whose advice you can use to ultimately make your own dynamic decisions. You are courageous and I believe in you. I hope that you can use your psychic reading to illuminate answers from within.

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Prepare: Jot down what you want to discuss

While you can go into a psychic reading blind and still have a unique experience, research suggests that doing a bit of preparation helps keep your reading focused.

For example, when you visit a doctor writing down your questions for them is helpful. In that moment at the doctor’s office, under the bright lights, it is easy to forget what you wanted to say.

Similarly, in a psychic reading it is easy to let nervousness or happy anticipation sweep your mind blank! This is an exciting and rare meeting! Jot down your thoughts, topics you want to cover, including your questions for a psychic before you get on your phone call.


Note-taking: Take notes during your reading

As your reading continues, more questions and thoughts may arise for you! You can take notes during your call to keep track, or save your notes for another reading in your future.


General Questions: A Platform for Getting Personal

Now I want to talk about what kind of questions you can ask your psychic. Plenty of blog posts say not to ask yes or no questions. However, I think part of the fun of a psychic reading can be to ask just these questions!

So go ahead and ask yes/no questions like:

Will I get married?
Will I have children?
Am I pregnant?
Will I leave my job?

All these are valid questions and provide a great place to start your reading!

However, from these more general questions just discussed you can get more personal. Some people think they should test their psychic by hiding their feelings and making the psychic guess, but this is not the case. By sharing intimate or personal details with your psychic you give them access to your experience and this improves the accuracy of your reading. Be careful, though, and be mindful about who you are sharing certain details of your life with. Be sure this is someone you trust.


The Non-Question: Having a Conversation with Your Psychic

You do not always have to have a question for your psychic, per se. You can also enter into a more natural conversation with your psychic and together suss out topics to explore. Beyond asking, “should I quit my job,” try revealing something to your psychic. You might say, “I feel unhappy with my work” or “my boss makes me feel small” or “my boyfriend is acting aloof!” You could even tell your psychic about a particular experience you had with someone and how it made you feel.

Then, your psychic can use intuitive powers to talk with you about what cosmic messages have arrived for you based on these experiences. This is a collaborative effort, you see, and one that affirms your power in the universe and in your own life!


Action Oriented Questions: A Big No-no!

It is common to seek advice from a psychic on what to do in a given situation. While a psychic can give you emotional advice, it is dangerous to give anyone too much power over your own life. For example, I have heard people ask a psychic: Should I leave my husband? Should I sell my house? Should I bet on horse #4 or #5?

Instead of asking a psychic such a specific action-oriented question, try giving them a sense of your whole situation. If you want advice on gambling, consider talking with your psychic more broadly about money-matters and any emotions you have connected to money. What is at stake for you if you win and if you lose? What could horse #4 represent for you on a larger scale.


Your's Truly,
Charmaine <3